When I was a kid, my mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then, And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long hard day at work. On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage and extremely burned biscuits in front of my dad. i remember waiting to see if anyone noticed !! Yet all my dad did was reach for his biscuit and smile at my mom and ask me how my day was at school. I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that biscuit and eat every bite !
When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my mom apologized to my dad for burning the biscuits . I'll never forget what he said: " Honey I love burned biscuits."
Later that night, I went to kiss daddy good night, and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits burned. He wrapped his arms around me and said, "Your momma put in a hard day at work today and she is real tired... and besides, " a little burned never hurt anyone..."
Life is full of imperfect things and imperfect people. I'm not the best at hardly anything, and I forget birthdays and anniversaries just like everyone else. But what I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each others faults- and choosing to celebrate each other's differences - is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing and lasting relationship.
And that's my prayer for you today. That you will learn to take the good with the bad and the ugly parts of your life and lay them down at the feet of God. Because in the end, He is the only one who will be able to give you a relationship where a burnt biscuit isn't a deal - breaker!
We could extend this to any relationship... In-fact, understanding is the base of any relationship, be it husband - wife, parent - child - work - friendship.....!
"Don't put the key to your happiness in someone Else's pocket-- keep it in your own!"
So please pass me a biscuit, and yes the burned one will do just fine.
and please pass it along to someone who has enriched your life.
Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.
Thursday, October 28, 2010
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